The Gender Conspiracy Against Woman 

Because I am a woman, my husband cheats on me, I am told to tolerate it to save my marriage. The barbaric and stupid excuse is that ”it is in their nature to cheat, I should slim down, dress better, cook better, pray harder and be more pleasant to him”

I AM A WOMAN!!!

So what?

I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.

I get into an argument with a man, I slap him, they tell me I have no respect, no home training. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him.

Because I am a woman, I don’t have a right to be angry. So, the degree of my innocence is directly proportional to the degree of my silence in the face of oppression and brutality…..

Because I am a woman, my husband cheats on me, I am told to tolerate it to save my marriage. The barbaric and stupid excuse is that ”it is in their nature to cheat, I should slim down, dress better, cook better, pray harder and be more pleasant to him”

I cheat, and I am called a whore, I have committed an abomination, I have no right to look elsewhere for the love and emotional support I lack at home, I am an irresponsible mother.

So I am sent packing, from the home we both built, with all my earthly possessions stuffed into a tiny box on my head. I am henceforth forbidden from seeing my two older children, I’m lucky to be allowed to go with my little one still suckling on my left breast. Three years later, the little one is tagged a bastard. Now, my new name is “after-three”, because I am a woman.

He is 28 and runs a company. He’s tagged wonderful, hardworking, focused, career oriented, successful at a very young age.

I am 28 and I run a company “Hmmmm…. she is not even married, unserious, can not order her priorities right, a hustler, loves money, let her go and get a husband oh”

And I wonder if being successful has anything to do with a person’s gender.

Because I am a woman,

I am not allowed to have wits or be a prodigy, I cannot be financially buoyant, professionally successful or be treated with respect without a man beside me.

Then I am tagged a generous leg opener, “a runs girl”. They never see the possibility that I actually had to go through ups and downs to get to where I am, because I am a woman.

A man looses his wife to death and remarries a year after, he did the right thing, he’s being praised and congratulated for moving on, after all life is for the living.

A woman looses her husband to death and remarries after 4yrs, “aaah! so early? Are u sure she wasn’t sleeping with that man even when her husband was alive? That was why she killed her husband. She’s a witch! Because she’s a woman.

Because I am a woman, this post will be considered controversial, and everyone will try to correct me. But don’t forget, that I am a woman and it does not make me less human!!!

Share to respect some woman and Tell your woman that you love her

: *Who is a woman?????*

When she is quiet, millions of things are running through her mind. When she stares at you, she is wondering why she loves you so much in spite of being taken for granted. When she says I will stand by you, she will stand by you like a solid rock. Never hurt her or take her for granted. A very heart touching message by a woman. Someone asked her, Are you a working woman or a housewife? She replied: Yes, I am a full-time working housewife. I work 24 hours a day. I’m a Mum. I’m a Wife. I’m a Daughter. I’m a Daughter-in-law. I’m an Alarm clock. I’m a Cook. I’m a Maid. I’m a Teacher. I’m a Waitress. I’m a Nanny. I’m a Nurse. I’m a Handywoman. I’m a Security officer. I’m a Counsellor. I’m a Comforter. I don’t get holidays. I don’t get sick leave. I don’t get day off. I work through day and night. I’m on call all hours and get paid with a sentence. “What Do U Do All Day??” This Is

Dedicated to all women*** A Woman has the most unique character like salt! Her presence is never remembered, but her absence makes all the things tasteless. Pass it to all the lovely ladies…Ur Mother. Ur Wife. Ur daughter. Ur sister & Ur friend. Forward to every woman to make her smile and to every man to make him realize a woman’s worth.

​I AM WRITING THIS LETTER TO THOSE WHO ARE GENUINELY BORN AGAIN, BUT THEY ARE STRUGGLING WITH SOME SECRET SINS

There is something glorious about your future God will show you, you will not need your pastor to keep preaching holiness message to you daily…

When you see a girl singing in the choir, yet, from the choir, she keeps sexual appointments, check that girl, she has not seen anything yet about her future…
When you see a young boy who dresses to church, to seduce those small girls to bed and his mates will be clapping for him, check that boy, he has a spiritual eye problem…
He hasn’t seen anything about his future yet…

If you do it again and again and again, God will forgive you again and again and again…
But, while He is busy forgiving you, angels are busy searching for some one else heaven will use to replace you …
What separates men before God is not how long they can pray or how much scriptures they know…
The value God places on people is not determined by the position they occupy in the church…

But how much they can bear for His Name sake…
Some times, He allows your salary to be delayed, to know if you will start stealing in your office…
Sometimes, He allows some lose ladies to start suggesting sex with you, to know if you have grown… 
But unfortunately, you still fall again ….

Yes, He will forgive…. 

But, you will still remain in the same class in the school of glory…
Decision separates men…

There is an OIL that comes with separation…

The weight of a man is buried in the decisions he makes when no one is watching him …
Many times, God allows you to be lonely so that you can be holy…
Forget this public revival messages all of us are preaching…

Many are still behind in the school of glory…
Not because they chose to, but because they are still don’t want to pay the price of separation…
If it takes a man to be married to be responsible, we will not have many married irresponsible men scattered all over the place who are renting houses for their girlfriends, while their wives are still at home….
When a man is due for marriage, he should get married…
But don’t tell me to get married because you want me to escape fornication…

Marriage is not an escape route into a responsible life… 
What you cannot control when you are single has the power to control you even when you are married …
No matter how beautiful your wife will be, you will still see other beautiful ladies….

Teach me how to die to flesh sir…

Teach me that I can live alone in a house alone and yet, I will not think rubbish thoughts…
Joseph was not married before he ran away naked from Portipha’s wife bedroom …

It was not a marital ring on his finger that made him refuse that gesture….
But because he knew the future God has planned for Him will be messed up by a single decision….
I want to raise a generation of young boys and girls that will love God where no one is seeing them …
I want to raise a breed that doesn’t appear holy only when they see their parents or their pastors… 
This holiness by dressing is sending people from choir seats to hell fire…

They are dying in secret sins, yet, they have none to cry to, because, once they confess, they will be stigmatized…
Consequently, we are raising a generation that is speaking in tongues on their way to hell…
Sister, singing in choir doesn’t confer value on men before God, but decision…

Stop attaching your spiritual growth on night vigils where you go and flog enemies …
God is waiting for you when no one is there…

If you can succeed there, you will be a commander of the supernatural…
The greatest tool against the end time church is the adulteration of the message of grace…

They teach you that God will forgive…

But they will not teach you that God will not promote you to another class…
No matter how you love your child, you will not give him your car key to use when you know he has not perfected his driving…
As long as that child is finding it hard to drive perfectly, he will keep trekking to school…
There is someone reading this posts now, heaven is saying that you are due for manifestation, but you have not made a decision yet…
You are still afraid of hunger….

You don’t want to starve….

You are ashamed of what people will say when you stop sleeping with men for money to pay bills…
They have even told you that there is no young person like you that doesn’t have sexual partners…

That human beings were wired by God to fall and rise again…
Severally, you have made moves to delete all those phone numbers that connects you to your vomits…

But you have been afraid of the days of loneliness…
You don’t want to miss those cuddles…

You don’t know if you can ever look into his eyes and tell him: “No more sex”…
Even if he accepts, you are afraid that you might never cope…
Sister, don’t let weekend orgasm rob you of eternal value…
Your enemy is no more that witch in the village…. 
But any man that is making you comfortable in a place of rebellion with God …
Don’t be in church singing in the choir and God will go to the nearest hotel and catch a prostitute, wash her, clean her and fill her with His power…
I know you have been trying to make amends …

You have answered altar calls severally, yet, you still fall back, even more deeper …
Some of us were there not too long ago…

Singing in choir, leading in powerful prayer sections, get, battling with addictions…
Worse of all we were afraid to tell anyone…

Because, people around would never have understood how much we were trying to be better … 
We bought different anointing oil, from different men of God, yet, we were not free…

We even afflicted ourselves with fastings…

Yet, nothing changed …
Until we encountered the Word of God…..

When Jesus said that ” We are made clean by the Words that I speak unto you…”
We began to read and study the Bible…

Like Job, we began to esteem God’s Word above our necessary food…
Gradually, addictions began to lose its grip…

God began to change our appetites…

Until today, the darkness is past, the true Light now shineth …
Brother, I want to recommend you to the Word of God….

The Word of God will settle that lust issue…

Don’t go and rush into marriage if you are not ready, because you want to avoid temptation…
The spirit of lust does not respect wedding ring…
Especially now that our sisters who are still in Babylon even prefers having it with married men …
There are still single guys who are serving God in spirit and in truth…

5 chapters of the bible every day and 1 hour prayers or more…
You will see that your mind will stop going to those thoughts …

Jesus did not say it is easy…

But He said that with God all things are possible …
Your heart is beating faster now as you are reading this…

You are wondering if you will ever get free from the things you are struggling with…
Friend, that God that did it for us will show up on your case…
Receive grace to feast on the Word from now….

In Jesus Name Amen and Amen …

Remain bless.

Quarrel Destroys Relationship

A saying in old China something like this, “One can win over and influence people the best with gestures of kindness and compassion.”

A farmer in ancient China had a neighbour who was a hunter, and who owned ferocious and poorly trained hunting dogs.

They jumped over the fence frequently and chased the farmer’s lambs. The farmer asked his neighbour to keep his dogs in check, but this fell on deaf ears.

One day the dogs again jumped the fence, attacked and severely injured several of the lambs.

The farmer had enough of his neighbours negligence. He ‎went to town to consult a judge who listened carefully to the story and said: “I could punish the hunter and  ‎ instruct him to keep his dogs chained or lock them up. But you would lose a friend and gain an enemy. Which would you rather have, friend or foe for a neighbour?”

The farmer replied that he preferred a friend. “Alright, I will offer you a solution that keeps your lambs safe, and which will keep your neighbour as a friend.”

Having heard the judge’s solution, the farmer agreed. Once at home, the farmer immediately put the judge’s suggestions to the test.

He took three of his best lambs and presented them to his neighbour’s three small sons, who were overjoyed to receive such lovely pets and began to play with them.

To protect his sons newly acquired playthings, the hunter built a strong kennel for his dogs. Since then, the dogs never again bothered the farmer’s lambs.

Out of gratitude for the farmer’s generosity toward his sons, the hunter often shared the game he had hunted with the farmer.

The farmer reciprocated by sending the hunter, lamb meat and cheese he had made. Within a short time the neighbours became good friends.

A saying in old China something like this, “One can win over and influence people the best with gestures of kindness and compassion.”

There is another similar Western saying: “One catches more flies with honey than with vinegar.” And, “Do you know what is better than charity and fasting and prayer? It is keeping peace and good relations between people, as quarrels and bad feelings destroy mankind.”

Kindness and compassion are signs of faith. Let us make it a part of us to be polite when we speak and not make rude remarks and bring people down with our words at every opportunity we get, especially with our families, friends and colleagues.
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