​I AM WRITING THIS LETTER TO THOSE WHO ARE GENUINELY BORN AGAIN, BUT THEY ARE STRUGGLING WITH SOME SECRET SINS

There is something glorious about your future God will show you, you will not need your pastor to keep preaching holiness message to you daily…

When you see a girl singing in the choir, yet, from the choir, she keeps sexual appointments, check that girl, she has not seen anything yet about her future…
When you see a young boy who dresses to church, to seduce those small girls to bed and his mates will be clapping for him, check that boy, he has a spiritual eye problem…
He hasn’t seen anything about his future yet…

If you do it again and again and again, God will forgive you again and again and again…
But, while He is busy forgiving you, angels are busy searching for some one else heaven will use to replace you …
What separates men before God is not how long they can pray or how much scriptures they know…
The value God places on people is not determined by the position they occupy in the church…

But how much they can bear for His Name sake…
Some times, He allows your salary to be delayed, to know if you will start stealing in your office…
Sometimes, He allows some lose ladies to start suggesting sex with you, to know if you have grown… 
But unfortunately, you still fall again ….

Yes, He will forgive…. 

But, you will still remain in the same class in the school of glory…
Decision separates men…

There is an OIL that comes with separation…

The weight of a man is buried in the decisions he makes when no one is watching him …
Many times, God allows you to be lonely so that you can be holy…
Forget this public revival messages all of us are preaching…

Many are still behind in the school of glory…
Not because they chose to, but because they are still don’t want to pay the price of separation…
If it takes a man to be married to be responsible, we will not have many married irresponsible men scattered all over the place who are renting houses for their girlfriends, while their wives are still at home….
When a man is due for marriage, he should get married…
But don’t tell me to get married because you want me to escape fornication…

Marriage is not an escape route into a responsible life… 
What you cannot control when you are single has the power to control you even when you are married …
No matter how beautiful your wife will be, you will still see other beautiful ladies….

Teach me how to die to flesh sir…

Teach me that I can live alone in a house alone and yet, I will not think rubbish thoughts…
Joseph was not married before he ran away naked from Portipha’s wife bedroom …

It was not a marital ring on his finger that made him refuse that gesture….
But because he knew the future God has planned for Him will be messed up by a single decision….
I want to raise a generation of young boys and girls that will love God where no one is seeing them …
I want to raise a breed that doesn’t appear holy only when they see their parents or their pastors… 
This holiness by dressing is sending people from choir seats to hell fire…

They are dying in secret sins, yet, they have none to cry to, because, once they confess, they will be stigmatized…
Consequently, we are raising a generation that is speaking in tongues on their way to hell…
Sister, singing in choir doesn’t confer value on men before God, but decision…

Stop attaching your spiritual growth on night vigils where you go and flog enemies …
God is waiting for you when no one is there…

If you can succeed there, you will be a commander of the supernatural…
The greatest tool against the end time church is the adulteration of the message of grace…

They teach you that God will forgive…

But they will not teach you that God will not promote you to another class…
No matter how you love your child, you will not give him your car key to use when you know he has not perfected his driving…
As long as that child is finding it hard to drive perfectly, he will keep trekking to school…
There is someone reading this posts now, heaven is saying that you are due for manifestation, but you have not made a decision yet…
You are still afraid of hunger….

You don’t want to starve….

You are ashamed of what people will say when you stop sleeping with men for money to pay bills…
They have even told you that there is no young person like you that doesn’t have sexual partners…

That human beings were wired by God to fall and rise again…
Severally, you have made moves to delete all those phone numbers that connects you to your vomits…

But you have been afraid of the days of loneliness…
You don’t want to miss those cuddles…

You don’t know if you can ever look into his eyes and tell him: “No more sex”…
Even if he accepts, you are afraid that you might never cope…
Sister, don’t let weekend orgasm rob you of eternal value…
Your enemy is no more that witch in the village…. 
But any man that is making you comfortable in a place of rebellion with God …
Don’t be in church singing in the choir and God will go to the nearest hotel and catch a prostitute, wash her, clean her and fill her with His power…
I know you have been trying to make amends …

You have answered altar calls severally, yet, you still fall back, even more deeper …
Some of us were there not too long ago…

Singing in choir, leading in powerful prayer sections, get, battling with addictions…
Worse of all we were afraid to tell anyone…

Because, people around would never have understood how much we were trying to be better … 
We bought different anointing oil, from different men of God, yet, we were not free…

We even afflicted ourselves with fastings…

Yet, nothing changed …
Until we encountered the Word of God…..

When Jesus said that ” We are made clean by the Words that I speak unto you…”
We began to read and study the Bible…

Like Job, we began to esteem God’s Word above our necessary food…
Gradually, addictions began to lose its grip…

God began to change our appetites…

Until today, the darkness is past, the true Light now shineth …
Brother, I want to recommend you to the Word of God….

The Word of God will settle that lust issue…

Don’t go and rush into marriage if you are not ready, because you want to avoid temptation…
The spirit of lust does not respect wedding ring…
Especially now that our sisters who are still in Babylon even prefers having it with married men …
There are still single guys who are serving God in spirit and in truth…

5 chapters of the bible every day and 1 hour prayers or more…
You will see that your mind will stop going to those thoughts …

Jesus did not say it is easy…

But He said that with God all things are possible …
Your heart is beating faster now as you are reading this…

You are wondering if you will ever get free from the things you are struggling with…
Friend, that God that did it for us will show up on your case…
Receive grace to feast on the Word from now….

In Jesus Name Amen and Amen …

Remain bless.

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Quarrel Destroys Relationship

A saying in old China something like this, “One can win over and influence people the best with gestures of kindness and compassion.”

A farmer in ancient China had a neighbour who was a hunter, and who owned ferocious and poorly trained hunting dogs.

They jumped over the fence frequently and chased the farmer’s lambs. The farmer asked his neighbour to keep his dogs in check, but this fell on deaf ears.

One day the dogs again jumped the fence, attacked and severely injured several of the lambs.

The farmer had enough of his neighbours negligence. He ‎went to town to consult a judge who listened carefully to the story and said: “I could punish the hunter and  ‎ instruct him to keep his dogs chained or lock them up. But you would lose a friend and gain an enemy. Which would you rather have, friend or foe for a neighbour?”

The farmer replied that he preferred a friend. “Alright, I will offer you a solution that keeps your lambs safe, and which will keep your neighbour as a friend.”

Having heard the judge’s solution, the farmer agreed. Once at home, the farmer immediately put the judge’s suggestions to the test.

He took three of his best lambs and presented them to his neighbour’s three small sons, who were overjoyed to receive such lovely pets and began to play with them.

To protect his sons newly acquired playthings, the hunter built a strong kennel for his dogs. Since then, the dogs never again bothered the farmer’s lambs.

Out of gratitude for the farmer’s generosity toward his sons, the hunter often shared the game he had hunted with the farmer.

The farmer reciprocated by sending the hunter, lamb meat and cheese he had made. Within a short time the neighbours became good friends.

A saying in old China something like this, “One can win over and influence people the best with gestures of kindness and compassion.”

There is another similar Western saying: “One catches more flies with honey than with vinegar.” And, “Do you know what is better than charity and fasting and prayer? It is keeping peace and good relations between people, as quarrels and bad feelings destroy mankind.”

Kindness and compassion are signs of faith. Let us make it a part of us to be polite when we speak and not make rude remarks and bring people down with our words at every opportunity we get, especially with our families, friends and colleagues.
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HOW TO INSTILL POSITIVE ATTITUDES/MANNERS IN YOUR CHILDREN THROUGH SELF EXAMPLE

1. When entering the house, greet your children with hugs and kisses. This should help develop their sense of love, courtesy & intimacy.

2. Be good to your neighbours and never backbite. Never speak ill of others, Your children listen, absorb and emulate.

3. When calling your parents, encourage your children to speak to them. When visiting your parents take your children with you. The more they see you take care of your parents the more they will learn to take care of you.

4. When driving them say to school, don’t always play albums or cds (even if my cds!). Rather, tell them the stories yourself. This will have a greater impact – trust me!

5. Read to them a short story and  even a scripture a day – it doesn’t take much time, but very impactful in creating strong bonds and wonderful memories. 

6. Comb your hair, clean your teeth and wear presentable cloths even if sitting at home and not going out for the day. They need to learn that being clean and tidy has nothing to do with going out! 

7. Try not to blame or comment on every word or action they say or do. Learn to overlook and let go sometimes. This certainly builds their self-confidence.

8. Ask your children’s permission before entering their rooms. Don’t just knock and enter, but then wait for a verbal permission. They will learn to do the same when wanting to enter your room.

9. Apologize to your children if you made a mistake. Apologizing teaches them to be civil, humble and polite.

10. Don’t be sarcastic or make fun of their views or feelings, even if you “didn’t mean it” and was “only joking”. It really hurts.

11. Show respect to your children’s privacy. Its important for their sense of value and self-esteem.

12. Don’t expect that they will listen or understand the first time. Don’t take it personally. But be patient and consistent.

13. Pray with them. Show them how to pray. Lead by example. Let them see you as their role model.

15. Avoid quarreling with your spouse in their presence.

16. Avoid watching TV most especially season films in their presence

17. Once in a while, task your children including the undergraduates, to write  a narrative or short essay for your assessment. By so doing, you’ll know the good writers among your children & how effective they’ve grown in the use of English.

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STORY: HONESTY SEED

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An old King realized that if he died he had no one to take over his throne. He decided to adopt a son.

He launched a competition and 10 boys made it to the top. The King said to them, “I have one last test and whoever comes top will become my adopted son and heir to my throne”.

He gave each boy a seed of corn and told them to take the seed home, plant and nurture it for 3 weeks. The 10 boys took their seeds and ran home to plant their seeds.

In one home, the boy and his parents were sad when the seed failed to sprout. The boy had diligently done everything required but he failed.

His friends advised him to buy a seed and plant it, but his God fearing parents who had always taught him honesty refused.

The day to give account to the King came and the 10 boys went to the palace. All the other 9 boys were successful with their seeds.

The King went to each boy asking – “Is that what came out of the seed I gave you?” And each boy said “Yes, your majesty”. The King would nod and move down the line until he came to the last boy in the line who was shaking with fear.

The King asked him – “What did you do with the seed I gave you?” The boy said “I planted it and cared for it your majesty but it failed to sprout.” The King went to the throne with the boy and said, “I gave these boys boiled seeds and a boiled seed cannot sprout.

If a King must have one quality, it must be honesty and only this boy passed the test.” We live in a society where people will do anything for success.

God sometimes does not give us things because He wants to teach us a lesson.

How many people out there have achieved success the wrong way? How many people send their children to expensive schools, build houses, buy expensive cars, etc, with stolen money?

How many people are occupying top positions yet they stole the certificates? How many people are successful out there at all costs?

HOW MANY PEOPLE WILL BE CROWNED AS KINGS IN HEAVEN FOR BEING FAITHFUL UNTIL THE END? I PRAY THAT YOU AND I BE FAITHFUL TO THE END..!!!

Please be faithful to God no matter what life throws at you, even if life gives you boiled seed.

If you can spare some of your precious time to send this allegory to other people to encourage them to be faithful in their life, please do. And if you don’t have the time now, no problem; just let the message be preached.