Dear man, no matter the type of husband you’ve been hitherto, you should consider the 10th type on the list below.
DEAR MEN WHAT TYPE OF HUSBAND ARE YOU:
1: BACHELOR HUSBAND
Does things on his own without consulting his wife. Hangs out a lot with friends more than his wife. Not serious about marriage life.
2: ACIDIC HUSBAND
Is always boiling like acid and always angry violent, moody, dominating and very dangerous.
3: SLAVE HUSBAND
He treats his Wife like a Slave and doesn’t respect her in anyway.
4: GENERAL HUSBAND
Husband for every woman. He loves and cares for girlfriends more than his wife. He Likes giving money to girlfriends and have more female friends.
5: DRY HUSBAND
Very moody and stingy and doesn’t consider wife’s emotions and don’t make the relationship enjoyable. He has no sense of humour.
6: PANADOL HUSBAND
Uses wife as a problem solver, he only loves his wife when he needs something from her.
7: PARASITIC HUSBAND
Lazy and only loves wife for the sake of money. Uses wife’s money on girlfriends. Not initiative and does not help wife with house responsibilities.
8: BABY HUSBAND
Irresponsible and childish and can’t make decisions on his own without asking his Mother or relatives; compares Wife to relatives and runs to them always if something goes wrong.
9: VISITING HUSBAND
Not always at home come as a visitor Provides family all material things but have no time for them.
10: CARING HUSBAND
Caring and loving. Provides material and emotional needs and makes time for family. Guides home spiritually. Very responsible and treats wife as partner and helper.
Did you know that even beauty at its peak as its downside? Every girl wants to possess or be attributed with breathtaking beauty. The desire and the feeling to be on a pedestal, admired and coveted is so pleasant that we all want to be that girl. The girl that spell bounds both sexes whenever she walks into any room, that girl that is intimidating, appreciated and desired by all. Little do they know that it comes along with so many negative presumptions and baggage that most men don’t wish to carry. Below are the reasons why.
ASSUMING THAT YOU’RE TAKEN
Whenever men admire and see an extremely beautiful girl in public. There is a general assumption that a woman as pretty as that can never be single and will have so many men lusting after her. Most men don’t like to be in so much competition for a girl’s affection so they just watch you walk by and assume you’re taken.
FEELINGS OF INSECURITIES BY THE PARTNER
An average looking girl will always have guys lusting after her, what more a very attractive girl? Dating an extremely attractive girl creates insecurities in the average man, which is more intense in a man with low self esteem. The man at times will feel you’re so much of a blessing, making him feel he doesn’t deserve you, coupled with other feelings of inferiority, jealousy and inadequacy. The problem of trust then arises even if the girl is faithful. He becomes someone that starts to second guess, suspect you, threatened of any interaction you might have with a more well to do or striking male individual. Since she’s so beautiful, the fear that she could be snatched anytime lingers in the man’s heart and most men do well to avoid this feeling by not dating the goddess-looking kind of women.
AVOIDING MANIPULATION AND DATING HER FOR THE WRONG REASONS
A girl’s features could be so enticing that it makes you overlook all her flaws such that it makes the man so forgiving, tolerating all the girl’s shortcomings despite the girl not having so much to offer other than the beauty and the self esteem she radiates to her partner and the idea of him having a trophy wife. The pretty face, the soul piercing eyes, the charming smile and seductive body can sway you to do so much that you wouldn’t do normally, which reduces your manly ego, makes you a puppet and makes you to really go out of your way just to satisfy and please her. Her personality might be awful, she might be a beauty without brains, might be very boring and ill mannered yet the beauty and the positive feeling of dating someone as beautiful as her will just persuade you stay and worship her.
RADIATING INTIMIDATION
A large proportion of men are nice guys, only a few are naturals with women that are used to being around and dating very beautiful women. Many lack the confidence and are intimidated by the beauty of a very attractive woman such that it’s very difficult for them to approach such women. Even in miraculous interactions with such women, they fidget and display all sort of nervousness. The fear of rejection is also one to reckon with, so they approach women that they have better chances with. Unfortunately for very beautiful women, they’re often approached by the wrong men (players) or probably wealthy men that can entice them with their riches. This also prevents the average good looking man to approach them with the notion that they’re high maintenance and that one needs to be financially buoyant to date them. So they avoid approaching them or initiating relationships in general.
HER EGO MIGHT GET IN THE WAY
You can be very certain a very beautiful girl is obviously aware that she is very attractive, right from when she was a baby to being a toddler she’s been called princess and beauty in her teens. Boys, guy, and men have always desired her and told her what a rare and special creature she is. This often gets to their head, make them act arrogant and with behaviors and traits that are difficult to cope with. Men are egoistic already, so it becomes difficult to cope with a woman that has that much ego and might probably talk to them or act in ways they’re not accustomed to.
To the immensely beautiful women, your beauty is a gift you should always cherish. Men will always second guess you and judge you with the societal stereotypes, you just be the best you can be. Do posses a nice and approachable personality. The rest will be easy.
Cheers!!!
Ise ni ogun `se
Mura si ise ore mi
Ise ni afi ndeni giga
Bi ako ba reni fehinti
Bi ole la a ri
Bi a ko ba reni gbekele
A tera mose eni
Iya re le lowo lowo
Baba re si le leshin le kan
Bi o ba gboju le won
O te tan ni mo so fun o
Ohun ti a ko ba jiya fun
Se kii le tojo
Ohun ti a ba fara sise fun
Ni npe lowo eni
Apa lara
Igunpa ni iye kan
Bi aiye ba nfe o loni
Ti o balowo lowo
Won a ma fe o lola
Jeki o wa ni ipo atata
Aiye a ma ye o si terin-terin
Jeki o deni rago
Ko o ri bi aiye ti nyinmu si o
Eko si tun soni doga
Mura ki o ko dara-dara
Iya nbo fomo ti ko gbon
Ekun mbe fomo ti o nsa kiri
Ma fowuro sere ore mi
Mura si ise ojo nlo.
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